Interracial dating has always been a bit of taboo across cultures. Whether it be Whites dating Blacks, Asians dating Hispanics, or some other combination of cross-cultural couples, it can be seen as strange. However, interracial dating is a very beautiful concept. To have two different heritages combine and build a relationship together is a marvelous accomplishment.
Overcoming traditional differences and varying upbringings can be a challenge. But, what attracts men of other ethnicities to women of color, specifically black women?
In this article, we surveyed 4 Hispanic males and asked them why they appreciate black women. Names have been changed to protect the privacy of the participants.
Here are the details of what they had to say.
Heriberto, a Medical Assistant student, feels that black women are exotic and have something special about them that he can find in no other race of women. He says the following, “I love black women! I always have. It's just something unique that makes them stand out from any other race of women, you know? I'm not sure if it's the curvy figure or the lovely dark skin or the sassy, independent attitudes, but they always come with their A-game. So when I'm in the club or at a party and a black girl wants to dance with me, I rarely say no because they are so much fun.”
Amos, an aspiring rapper, feels that black women have always motivated him to do more with himself, and they never let him run all over them as he was used to with his former girlfriends. He says, “I love all women, don't get me wrong. But, me, I'm a real jerk sometimes, and I know it. But, in a relationship, I need someone who will stand up for me and not let me get away with jack. Because I tend to over dominate everything, I can be a little intimidating to some women. But, I can honestly say that I have never had a black woman who let me boss them around. Man, if anything, they tried to boss me around. But, I like that because it motivates me to do more than stand on the corner with my guys or write a verse here and there. They make me wanna hustle to better myself.”
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Jose, a young businessman, feels that black women are the most beautiful of all races and should be cherished for their unique features and different attributes. He quotes the following, “I have gotten a chance to travel quite a bit and have seen countless races of women. I personally think that black women have consistently struck me more so than any other race. I'm not sure if it's the way they walk, talk, or dress. Or maybe it's that sultry brown skin, kinky hair, or big smiles. Most men love to talk about the body when referring to black women. Yes, I agree they have nice shapes, full bust, small waist, thick thighs, and round hips. But, I do not think that is the best thing that they have to offer. I honestly could see myself marrying a Black woman in the future. I think we'd have the cutest kids together too! (he laughs)”.
Luis, an amazing graffiti artist, says that black women have a unique perspective on his art, and they make great subjects for his work. He says the following, “As an artist, I like to use people for subjects and kind of abstract them. I think black women make great subjects because they seem very open to my art and appreciative of my style. Obviously, they are physically miraculous but they just have a different perspective on things, and I find them very interesting to interact with."
There you have it! That is straight from the mouth of 4 remarkable Hispanic men speaking on why they appreciate us as black women. So next time you are looking for a partner, be open-minded to men from different ethnic backgrounds because interracial dating can be a fun and beneficial experience for you!